Come September

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To meet as soon as the colder months. it is time for cuffing Season

summer is the time for festivals, long lazy days in The Park and for some of us. being single.

But in September, as the sun hours are shorter and the temperatures drop, You might find yourself someone to want to cuddle.

this is basically the premise of the "cuffing Season " - this is when People usually decide to be happy, being single, is it time for a plus-one for the Christmas party.

And Then quickly dispose of it before your trip to Ibiza in the spring. Brutal.

Everyone wants a romance like Love Actually At Christmas right?

Cuffing Season has been dedicated its own entry in the playlist, it is a great streaming service, and it is also in an ad for a drinks brand performers are Lizzo.

It might sound a bit of a Joke , But some of the current research has been done in the seasonal dating pattern.

the Dating app, Bumble told Newsbeat That new users Will join, between November and January than at any other time in the course of the Year .

Bumble says That People get swipe-happy to between November and January.

We found Two People of the temptation That brings cuffing Season succumbed to.

Elena is 26 and recently found your partner after the stress on dating apps.

"I'm currently dating someone I met on an app a few months ago. I'm actively involved in the search made in September and October, because we were approaching the winter months," says beat Radio 1 News.

"Winter is the time, to me they cuddled, because it's comfortable - You just want someone on the couch watching a Christmas movie. "

she says it is an "unspoken pressure" to be in a relationship at This Time of Year , and That Social Media definitely influences.

"Whether it is the decoration of the Christmas tree or events for the whole family - the People , the partners are everywhere. "

And while Elena couple is enjoying at the moment, the question remains - Will they come separately in the New Year ?

"I'm going to dump him after the winter? This is not my long-term goal, But if You 're young, summer is the perfect time to be single, so we have to wait and see. "

Kate Mansfield is a dating and relationship coach, and says That the time before Christmas can be difficult for the individual.

"holidays, such as Christmas and the New Year , feels very lonely, when she says not in a pair, while You 're not going to notice how much everyone", You news beat.

"I think it is fair to say, a lot of People find their families, the feel is quite difficult at This Time of the Year , so That You can make, lonely. "

she says if People are worried about spending Christmas itself, there are many things You can do to improve how You feel.

"If You feel lonely, then You can help out, and the other, something for a good purpose.

"are You likely to meet other People and to move to be able to have these feelings. Back can give, the help You really. "

Someone Else , the experience ' s cuffing Season with UPS and downs, the 21-Year -old Kaylee Golding.

Kaylee, says recently chatted about their experiences, it makes sense to romances end when the spring comes, because it's less fun That way in the summer, if You are coupled-up.

"I think People want to go on vacation and have the Best Time of your life," she says.

"It's not, and always with other People - it's just not That You worry and feel guilty to have fun. "

But in a bit of a plot twist, after pairing up in the winter last Year , she decided That she wanted to stay with her friend.

"When we I was together, like, 'oh yeah, we can get to know each other and maybe a bit of fun'. Then as we spent more time with each other over the winter we decided we wanted to be together," she says.

in The Past few years, People have joked about Social Media , the cuffing Season is for finding someone, to You to the Winter Wonderland in London's Hyde Park (to other Christmas markets).

"as soon as cuffing Season begins, You can find a dating app, swipe and someone to take You to "Winter Wonderland"," Kaylee says.

it Is also a good date, if You don't win a stuffed animal?

she says, it is "so much pressure" to find someone, go to Instagram-worthy festive dates, and is not helped, to measure by a barrage of happy couples, putting pictures with the stuffed animals You won At Christmas .

This Year , though, You could be one of them.

But the perfect Insta-post should not look like: "My Girlfriend garbage is to win stuff, You Will never win something for me in the fair play - so Yes, I would love to this image, But it's not gonna happen," she laughs.

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Source of news: bbc.com